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Ana Paula's avatar

Beautifully articulated, what a great piece!

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Thanks, Ana. Glad you enjoyed it. Happy New Year!

catherine emmanuella's avatar

yeh you’ve completely and perfectly articulated my own mindset and way of life back to me

i’m not surprised you have as many subscribers as you do, writing like that

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Oh wow, what a lovely and kind comment. Thank you so much, catherine! Happy New Year!

Irlanda Navarro's avatar

Such a good essay! Immediate subscribe :) Sometimes I feel weird or othered by not liking certain things but this makes a lot of sense and I see it as important to keep!

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Thanks, Irlanda. We like what we like 💁‍♀️

layla's avatar

God this is good

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Thanks so much, layla

لينا's avatar

I’ve just started reading your work and wow you’re my favourite author in here so far. I can’t afford to subscribe yet but I will definitely do so in the future.

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Oh wow, that's so kind of you to say, Alayhia, thank you. Send me a note with your email and I'll send you a few months for free :)

Mariam N.'s avatar

Love this!!!

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Thanks, Miriam! 🤍

Operation Alba's avatar

The way you articulate standards is so unbiased and direct. I'm here for it!

stepfanie tyler's avatar

Thanks! I tend to be direct (and I always aim for unbiased) 🙈

Nicole Andrew's avatar

A few years ago I decided if it was a fuck yes, it was a no. Life started to get way better