I truly do believe all of us need to become more comfortable being less palatable. To find what things and people truly align with you, you need to be brave enough to let yourself be seen.
As someone who has a big personality that isn't compatible with many of the people I meet, I had to learn that it wasn't about me and that being liked by everyone is not only impossible, it would be exhausting.
This is really good. I appreciate the encouragement to be ourselves. The world sends us a contradictory message so we can feel alone in this sometimes. Great work!
I write about Deep System design,Engineering, tech, how to build things in tech at a deeper level, AI/ML inference, Benchmarks, LLMs and How to Quants, please checkout some of my posts ( more than 500000 reads) -
[New Milestone: Giveaway] 500,000 Reads, 5600 subscribers, System Design, ML System Design Playlist Gone Viral including Case studies [Celebration Time]
"Someone thinks you're arrogant for being certain about something you've studied deeply. Someone calls you cold for setting a boundary that protects your energy. A silence settles over the room after you say something direct instead of wrapping it in qualifiers and apologies." wow you've been describing my interactions for the past few months. people keep saying i'm condescending and i'm like ??? no???? so thank you, you made me feel seen 💖
While reading, I found myself wondering, as we try to reconnect with our authentic selves, how can we reconcile and forgive the versions of us that performed for universal eligibility?
“You can’t be legible to everyone without erasing yourself” So many takeaways but this is the line that struck me
Wow! This peice is so powerful.
I truly do believe all of us need to become more comfortable being less palatable. To find what things and people truly align with you, you need to be brave enough to let yourself be seen.
I have wrote this one crying ,finally i can say it put laud,🥹🥹
Low key YES
I needed this! Ty! 🧡
As someone who has a big personality that isn't compatible with many of the people I meet, I had to learn that it wasn't about me and that being liked by everyone is not only impossible, it would be exhausting.
100% and so so timely, like chillingly so
Adore this! 🫶✨
So important! We spend way too much time performing for acceptance.
Why do we keep mistaking likability for humility?
salamat sa reminded madame. noted ni
This is really good. I appreciate the encouragement to be ourselves. The world sends us a contradictory message so we can feel alone in this sometimes. Great work!
Nice one. Great to connect with you.
I write about Deep System design,Engineering, tech, how to build things in tech at a deeper level, AI/ML inference, Benchmarks, LLMs and How to Quants, please checkout some of my posts ( more than 500000 reads) -
https://howtosystemdesigneverything.substack.com/
https://aiinferenceandoptimizations.substack.com/
https://roastmyoffer.substack.com/
[Important AI Inference Pulse #4] KV Cache: The One Piece of Memory That Can Eat an Entire Expensive Chip — Just By Remembering- How It Actually Works
https://aiinferenceandoptimizations.substack.com/p/important-ai-inference-pulse-4-kv?r=14q3sp
[New Milestone: Giveaway] 500,000 Reads, 5600 subscribers, System Design, ML System Design Playlist Gone Viral including Case studies [Celebration Time]
https://howtosystemdesigneverything.substack.com/p/new-milestone-giveaway-500000-reads?r=14q3sp&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web
"Someone thinks you're arrogant for being certain about something you've studied deeply. Someone calls you cold for setting a boundary that protects your energy. A silence settles over the room after you say something direct instead of wrapping it in qualifiers and apologies." wow you've been describing my interactions for the past few months. people keep saying i'm condescending and i'm like ??? no???? so thank you, you made me feel seen 💖
I love the clarity of this piece
Gem of an article<3
While reading, I found myself wondering, as we try to reconnect with our authentic selves, how can we reconcile and forgive the versions of us that performed for universal eligibility?
Love this topic!