I think that's how the universe works. I'm also on the edge of starting something new and I was having all this thoughts. But then suddenly a notification drops from your page and guess what I happen to open it ( I came on substack today btw) and your post has acted like a guide for me.. Tysm and all the very best✨
This is kind of how I've been feeling lately with a final exam for uni. I've postponed sitting for it because I felt unprepared. I still don't feel so ready but I decided to sit down because I need to do it.
Lets goo!! Congrats on the big move! This is how it starts. Thanks for sharing, I definitely have had that feeling, I still dont feel like sharing everything to friends and family, just keeping it to myself, but the algo just shows to people I know anyways.
Way to go! Everything you did was the right signal to send to your nervous system that you are serious, that you are ready to step into a new identity. We don't change by setting goals - we change when we decide on who we want to be and start living it. I am genuinely excited to see what you do next!
Thanks so much, Marko! I'm proud of myself, actually. A feeling I'm trying to get used to! Very excited to start living as the builder I know I can be :)
I am so freaking happy for you!!!! and for this post! I am literally in the cringe stage and this isn’t the first post of yours that’s inspired me to take action! Thanks so much for sharing… please never stop what you’re doing!! and I am sending every single positive vibe possible and I am wishing you SO much success!!
Oh wow, that is so kind, thanks so much Andrea! What are you building right now?? I'm sure it's not cringe, we're so hard on ourselves! Sending you lots of good vibes toooo! ✨
Thanks so much!!! I’m building a publication where it’s venting about a topic but at the end empowering the reader to take action to get out of the “rut” or situation that caused the petty rant.
So exciting and can definitely relate! As soon as I set up my business and started backing myself, I took things way more seriously. It also felt like a test from the universe, checking to see how bad I wanted it. I reckon I passed and you have too!
Completely unrelated side note: would love to understand how you're thinking of using Pinterest to promote BGM!
It really is a fun layer of accountability, isn't it :)
RE: Pinterest... I'm not entirely sure yet. I think I'm going to use it to repost cute quote cards I make that I'll likely be posting to IG anyway... it seems like those perform well based on what I've seen from others? But it's all one big experiment for now. Any tips for Pins? Or were you asking bc you hoped I had them? 🙈
Asking cos I hoped you'd have tips but I've been thinking about trying it to! Will also have a little experiment and report back if anything magical happens! lol 💚
Yes please keep me posted. I'll do the same. It's going to take me some time to wrap my head around all these "new" social platforms bc I haven't used any in YEARS. So, let the experiments begin 🧫
Congratulations, Stepfanie. I feel confident saying that you will succeed.
Your comment, "because once it's real on paper, it starts feeling real in your head....." reminded me of a documentary from a number of years ago of very well known American rock star in the recording studio who said almost the same thing.
He said once you issue a press release about an upcoming new album; it's no longer an idea in your mind - it's real and you have to do see it through because you've just announced to the world what you're doing.
Thanks so much for sharing Stepfanie. Such an inspiration to me as someone also trying to put out in the world something I care about. It’s funny to me to think how badly we crave being seen and at the same time are terrified of being seen. Congrats on your next step.
Thanks for the kind words, Mariah. Yes, it's quite paradoxical! In order for people to see our work, we have to publish the work (and promote the work, which feels the *most* cringe to me!) It's a learning process for sure, but I'm glad I'm finally getting the real reps in. I hope you put your something out into the world soon, too! ✨
I see you and I am rooting for you..! How wonderful your courage is❤️🔥
Ahhh I feel so seen, thank you jess! I feel rooted for already 🫂
Yayy! So happy for you
I think that's how the universe works. I'm also on the edge of starting something new and I was having all this thoughts. But then suddenly a notification drops from your page and guess what I happen to open it ( I came on substack today btw) and your post has acted like a guide for me.. Tysm and all the very best✨
I love it when the universe is universing! This is your sign to START TODAY, Richa! ✨
This is kind of how I've been feeling lately with a final exam for uni. I've postponed sitting for it because I felt unprepared. I still don't feel so ready but I decided to sit down because I need to do it.
Action cures anxiety! :)
“Thanks for supporting me even when I’m cringe” 😂
😅
This came exactly when I needed it, thank you so much!!
It feels like a push to move forward, not to think too much.
Consider it a polite kick in the butt :)
I really needed, thank you!
Yesss, thanks for sharing!! It always good to know we're not alone <3
Definitely not alone! 🫂
I appreciate how unromantic this is about courage. I wish you all the best!!!
Thanks so much, Apoorvaa 🤍
Lets goo!! Congrats on the big move! This is how it starts. Thanks for sharing, I definitely have had that feeling, I still dont feel like sharing everything to friends and family, just keeping it to myself, but the algo just shows to people I know anyways.
Ha it's the worst when that happens, but we must push through 🙈
Way to go! Everything you did was the right signal to send to your nervous system that you are serious, that you are ready to step into a new identity. We don't change by setting goals - we change when we decide on who we want to be and start living it. I am genuinely excited to see what you do next!
Thanks so much, Marko! I'm proud of myself, actually. A feeling I'm trying to get used to! Very excited to start living as the builder I know I can be :)
I am so freaking happy for you!!!! and for this post! I am literally in the cringe stage and this isn’t the first post of yours that’s inspired me to take action! Thanks so much for sharing… please never stop what you’re doing!! and I am sending every single positive vibe possible and I am wishing you SO much success!!
Oh wow, that is so kind, thanks so much Andrea! What are you building right now?? I'm sure it's not cringe, we're so hard on ourselves! Sending you lots of good vibes toooo! ✨
Thanks so much!!! I’m building a publication where it’s venting about a topic but at the end empowering the reader to take action to get out of the “rut” or situation that caused the petty rant.
Oooh love it. Just gave you a follow, can't wait to see more!
Much respect to you, Stepfanie. Fear of failure has killed more dreams than failure ever has. Crazy how many reminders we need of that
SO TRUE. Thanks so much! :)
So exciting and can definitely relate! As soon as I set up my business and started backing myself, I took things way more seriously. It also felt like a test from the universe, checking to see how bad I wanted it. I reckon I passed and you have too!
Completely unrelated side note: would love to understand how you're thinking of using Pinterest to promote BGM!
It really is a fun layer of accountability, isn't it :)
RE: Pinterest... I'm not entirely sure yet. I think I'm going to use it to repost cute quote cards I make that I'll likely be posting to IG anyway... it seems like those perform well based on what I've seen from others? But it's all one big experiment for now. Any tips for Pins? Or were you asking bc you hoped I had them? 🙈
Asking cos I hoped you'd have tips but I've been thinking about trying it to! Will also have a little experiment and report back if anything magical happens! lol 💚
Yes please keep me posted. I'll do the same. It's going to take me some time to wrap my head around all these "new" social platforms bc I haven't used any in YEARS. So, let the experiments begin 🧫
It’s the wild west out there! Keen to hear how you go with it all
Congratulations, Stepfanie. I feel confident saying that you will succeed.
Your comment, "because once it's real on paper, it starts feeling real in your head....." reminded me of a documentary from a number of years ago of very well known American rock star in the recording studio who said almost the same thing.
He said once you issue a press release about an upcoming new album; it's no longer an idea in your mind - it's real and you have to do see it through because you've just announced to the world what you're doing.
Best of luck.
Thanks Sean, I really appreciate. Ready to rock and roll 🤘
This is a sign for me to just get started
A polite kick in the butt 🍑
Thanks so much for sharing Stepfanie. Such an inspiration to me as someone also trying to put out in the world something I care about. It’s funny to me to think how badly we crave being seen and at the same time are terrified of being seen. Congrats on your next step.
Thanks for the kind words, Mariah. Yes, it's quite paradoxical! In order for people to see our work, we have to publish the work (and promote the work, which feels the *most* cringe to me!) It's a learning process for sure, but I'm glad I'm finally getting the real reps in. I hope you put your something out into the world soon, too! ✨
Thank you for inspiring me and everyone to go after our dream(s) Stephanie!
I'm glad to hear you're feeling inspired, Nick! Put your work out there, we want to see it!