Hi, I’m Stepfaniewelcome to BAD GIRL MEDIA.

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You can find a categorized glossary of posts HERE if you’re in a hurry

What you’ll find here:

  • Subscriber-only tools — interactive tools built specifically for my paid readers. Typically, they accompany an essay so you can see the framework and then actually apply it to your own life. First tool just launched in February 2026, and I’ll be actively adding to this library in the coming months.

  • Conscious Creation — a guided behavior tracking program. Each week builds on the last, but it’s entirely self-paced. Join us any time.

  • THE DAILY 5 — my 90-day journaling framework for self-awareness. It’s a scaffolding for introspection, energy mapping, and personal bandwidth. A way to notice your own patterns without drowning in self-help overwhelm.

    • What is THE DAILY 5? → FAQs

  • Studio B — bite-sized visual essays on artists I love and can’t stop thinking about. Think of it like walking through a gallery with a friend—just noticing what’s beautiful, what lingers, what makes us feel more alive. Published a few times each month, whenever it calls to me.

  • Essays on systems thinking, mental models, and the architecture of attention.

  • Notes on memory, awe, clarity, and the long-game of becoming someone you’re proud of.


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A pretty cool achievement

One of my essays, “flirting with the world,” was mentioned in THE NEW YORK TIMES

Oh by the way, I also love writing lyrics! I released an album last year called speedrunning love, which is available wherever you stream music. It’s basically my diary from the last decade, in song-form. I hope you’ll give it a listen.
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